gray-ace more like gay-ace
Love the simultaneous narratives of "trans men/women are ACTUALLY simply Very Confused gay women/men and transitioning is homophobic," and "trans men/women are trying to trick gay men/women into having nonconsentual het sex. Just. Love that they're suddenly so concerned for the wellbeing of the people they were trying to deny rights for being sex pests within the last decade.
it's almost like the whole thing is a crock of shit......... 🤔🤔🤔
I mean likely it's some combination of a few of those things
Because like lemme tell ya
holy shit am I gay
Any of my coworkers: "How's your day goin', Josie?"
Me: "Pretty good. I got to have some human rights today, so that's cool!"
"The Supreme Court ruled I can't be fired for being gay!"
I'm pretty sure this is the first time many of my coworkers put together that me being a girl, and me liking girls, means I'm gay.
Explained to my mom for like the third time that, no, the gender feelings aren't new, that catching a bad case of gender in my 30s wouldn't be that weird, and that developing them at the onset of puberty is, despite the narratives, actually probably the most common way these feelings manifest.
one of these days it'll set in. maybe. hopefully.
Powerful, cute, foolish. Grey-ace. Trans.
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