I've legitimately felt unwelcome in the queer community, for a LONG time due to Public Displays of Horniness and being shamed and treated like I'm just a Puritan trying to ruin people's fun by not wanting the same things.
Being a non-binary trans ace sucks sometimes cause you're in the zone of one of the prime intersections of being treated like utter shit.
I also want to point out as a fair person it's even worse if you're black and ace and or agender because then on top of everything else you get the shitty forced gender stereotypes and sexualization that whites put on black bodies.
@revolverocelot oh mood
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