do you make pronoun cards to remember ppl's pronouns? #ActuallyAutistic
#ActuallyAutistic I'm thinking of making these plastic cards where I put someone's name and pronouns and whatever extra notes I need (like "don't call cute" or "don't ask to hug, just hug" or "don't use 'you'") and then just sort them and put them in a keyring or something. then carry it with me. (uh if it gets stolen you get my whole social graph but I mean you can get those from my profile so who cares? .-.)
thoughts? (also feel free to add extra hashtags, like something about crafts or w/e)
#ActuallyAutistic update: it seems those are called laminated paper? sorry, I didn't know that.
however, I'm still seeking feedback on the general idea. do you think I should try it? do you have any suggestions about what I should put on them? etc?
#ActuallyAutistic would it be awkward to include ppl's boundaries wrt flirting and lewd and stuff in the cards?
#ActuallyAutistic update: I've decided not to do this due to the privacy concerns. I looked into encryption (there are some forms of encryption that you can do in your head) but I'm not happy with the stuff I found for that so I figure it's safer to just not do it.
I'll have to find another way to deal with this stuff. I'm open to suggestions but I might just do something completely different instead.
@s0 in a way, yeah.
as in... I don't like them. 😅
I was trying to avoid those tbh, they're not physical enough for me. but I haven't really tried them, no.
@SoniEx2 I’m assuming you considered a digitally encrypted version in an app that’s password-protected. I know iOS/Mac notes app supports this, and there are others